The European Football Championship is an exciting time for the nation, with many of us getting together with friends and family to cheer on England. Whilst this event is associated with good spirits and celebration, it is important to be aware of the issue of domestic abuse. Research conducted by Lancaster University revealed that incidents of domestic abuse rose by 38% following England’s losses in matches, and by 26% after wins or draws. For women and children experiencing domestic abuse, tournaments like the Euros can put them at even greater risk.
1 in 4 women will be a victim of domestic abuse in their lifetime. Domestic abuse refers to a pattern of behaviours used by one partner to maintain power and control over another in a relationship. These behaviours can include physical violence, but also include emotional, psychological, sexual, and financial abuse. It is a serious issue with profound impacts on victims’ physical and mental well-being. Children who witness domestic abuse or are directly exposed to it can suffer long-lasting impacts on their development and well-being. It is important to note that football does not cause domestic abuse, however, alcohol consumption, high expectations and heightened emotions may escalate abusers’ existing behaviours. Domestic abuse can impact all individuals regardless of gender, age, or background. Many victims endure prolonged abuse before seeking help.
Domestic abuse encompasses various forms of mistreatment:
- Emotional Abuse: Includes humiliation, constant criticism, and shouting.
- Financial Abuse: Involves controlling finances and limiting access to money.
- Social Isolation: Aims to keep victims away from friends and family.
- Surveillance: Includes monitoring activities and demanding access to phones, social media, and emails.
- Sexual Abuse: Involves forcing victims into unwanted sexual activities.
- Physical Abuse: Includes kicking, punching, slapping, and hitting.
- Threats: Threats to instil fear, such as threatening animals, children, or even their own lives.
Women’s Aid’s ‘He’s Coming Home’ campaign highlights the upsetting reality that incidents of domestic abuse surge during major football tournaments. This year, the charity have collaborated with House 337 to transform traditional football scarves to underscore the urgent and serious issue of domestic abuse. The scarves display various slogans such as “No More Years of Hurt,” “He’s Coming Home,” and “England Till I Die,” typically associated with football enthusiasm but now resonating deeply in the context of domestic abuse. Additionally, the police have announced a national policing strategy to combat this issue. It emphasises a proactive, collaborative approach involving multiple agencies to protect victims and pursue offenders.
If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic abuse, it is important to prioritise your safety and seek help. National and local helplines can provide immediate support, advice, and resources. If possible, leave the home and go to a safe place, such as a friend’s or family member’s house, or a public place. Keep a detailed record of all instances of abuse, including dates, times, and descriptions of incidents. Many organisations provide temporary housing for victims of domestic abuse, offering a safe environment and additional resources. If you feel safe doing so, inform your employer about your situation. They may be able to provide support and accommodations, such as flexible working hours or security measures. Additionally, engage in activities that help reduce stress and promote well-being, such as exercise, meditation, and hobbies.
Above all else, it is important to remember that domestic abuse is never the victims fault, and everyone deserves to live free from fear and harm.
How to report domestic abuse:
- If you’re a victim of domestic abuse, or know someone who is, and there’s an emergency that’s ongoing or life is in danger, call 999 now.
- Call 101 (If you have a hearing or speech impairment, use our textphone service on 18001 101)
- Go to your local police station
- Contact Refuge’s National Domestic Abuse Helpline by calling 0808 2000 247, or via live chat. For men, you can call men’s advice line on 0808 8010 327.
- For more information and contact details you can visit the NHS on nhs.uk/live-well/getting-help-for-domestic-violence/.